They don't go out and kill themselves. They use it as a military strategy. Surely you see a difference between killing yourself because you don't want to live, and resorting to suicide bombing because of the military superiority of your enemy?
I do not. Killing yourself by blowing yourself up as a military strategy is suicide. There is no difference. many suicide bombers are just brain washed bafoons, or have no reason to live and go crazy at the promise of "virgins". It is a sick concept and reasoning they have.
There suicide is 100X's worse because they not only end there life by there own hand, but murder in the process, since the majority of suicide bombers attack innocent civilians to scare the population.
They go out and kill themselves and take others with them. They KILL THEMSELVES. They aren't saying I would rather die instead of paganism. They are pushing a button that tears there existance apart and tears the existance of other humans G-d created apart.
Why on earth would G-d ever want his creations killing themselves and killing other innocent creations as the majority of the times they do.
Judaism regards suicide as a criminal act. Someone who commits suicide is considered a murderer. It matters not whether he kills someone else or himself.
His soul is not his to extinguish.
Judaism's opposition to suicide is found in the story of Noah's Ark. After the flood, G-d says to Noah: Your blood which belongs to your souls I will demand; from the hand of every beast will I demand it. From the hand of every man; from the hand of every man who is his brother will I demand the life of man.(Genesis 9:5)
The Talmud (Baba Kama 90b) learns from the first part of the verse, "And surely the blood of your lives I will demand," that one may not wound his own body. All the more so, he may not take his own life.
There is also a deep spiritual consequence to suicide.
When a person commits suicide, the soul has nowhere to go. It cannot return to the body, because the body is destroyed. And it is not let in to any of the soul worlds, because its time has not come. This state of limbo is very painful. A person may commit suicide because he wants to escape, but in reality he is getting a far worse situation.
In this world, if we try hard enough sometimes we can solve the problem. But after death there are no solutions, only consequences.
When a Jew commits suicide, he is not permitted a full Jewish burial, and there is even a debate whether shiva (the seven-day mourning period) is observed or whether the kaddish prayer is said.