I agree with you. If GraceSeeker is interested in the Islamic perspective on this issue, he can pose a question for us to reply to.
I did pose a question, way back in post #788, that's how this present conversation got started. Simply observing that some practices by certain Muslims (like those Muslims who expect that angels offer dua for them or that on the day of judgment Muhammad will plead their case with Allah) and some practices of some Christians (like Catholics who pray "to" saints) don't seem all that different to me. And I was asking (if you go back) how it is that Muslims see them as so significantly different?
The responses pointed to views that it was because Muslims don't pray to dead people. To which I pointed out that those Christians who offer these sorts of prayers don't feel that they are either. Hence, the difference that was alluded to isn't actually there. We've been going round on our understanding of whether people are alive are not. So, my question remains:
Given that when Catholics pray "to" saints (and I've explained they aren't actually praying to them, but asking them to pray for them) how is that different than what Muslims do in expecting angles and even Muhammad to make intercession for them.
Now, one thing I've learned is that not all Muslims agree with the practice of those Muslims who have these expectations. Just like Fedos is an illustration that not all Christians agree with the practice of those Christians who have these expectations. So, again, at least to me, it looks like there is a great deal of similiarity between Muslims views and Christian views regarding what strike me as very similar practices. So, how come on these forums I see Muslims challenging Catholics in their practice (and some acting as if it is all Christiams), but I don't see challenges to those Muslims (identified in this thread in two different posts) who do much the same thing?
Maybe that isn't a fair question to put to those of you responding in this thread who generally don't participate in such accussations.
So, I'll just come back to the original question. Now that you see that Catholics don't see themselves as praying to the dead, but asking a still living person (though living in a different spiritual dimenion) to pray for them, what is the difference? Is it that a Muslim cannot conceive of a person actually being alive following the passing away of their physical body, and so has no context in which to understand that practice by another, is it something else, or is it really that there is no significant difference except that which one has grown accustommed to and does not question about one's own faith community, but does when seen in another?