very very interseting. thanks all for the replies.
ok so malaikah says
Even if God Himself told you to pray in a certain way? So you would dare tell God that it is not of his business how you talk to Him?
and this is what confuses me. i thought God did not say anything in the hadiths. i thought it was just how mohammed lived and traditions. where does it say that God said it? i thought the quran was what God said revealed to mohammed and from what i read elsewhere the hadiths are other oral traditions from witnesses that were written down a few hundred years after mohammed died. and most of the originals were conflicting so some councils had to pick and choose which ones were valid and which ones were not. ....... can someone calrify this some more for me? b/c from what i've read it says that the quran is the word of God and hadiths are not. so i nthat sense God does not tell you
how to pray..................?
where does it say that women should cover their heads? quran or hadith? how come some communties do and some don't follow that rule?
i find it similar to certain christians (antiochs?) the women all wear long skirts. and amish......some mormons.......wai they are not christians. anywaysssss
Christianity is a set of beliefs around Jesus that that does not command even any particular form of prescribed worship. Muslims strive to pattern their lives after Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) and it seems to me that the Quran serves one function while the hadith and sunnah serve another complimentary function.
i think it s quite obvius i am no scholar but just your average joan

however as far as i know christians strive to pattern their lives around jesus and it seems to me that the bible is all we need. and it include history and parables and laws to live by......all in one book. and for a christian the answer to 'what would jesus do?' is sufficient to any question about what to do.
so its much like you follow mohammed. very much so.
If you didn't accept the sunnah, you can then go to any church, synagogue, temple and start praying to any deity there.
no you ccan't because it says in the quran that there is one God. why would you pray to something that doesn't exist (any diety there)? you don't need the sunnah to tell you that. it also says that in the Bible. sooooooooo......?
So, you know your prayers are acceptable...hmmm. Oh yes, and you most likely end your prayer with something like "In Jesus' Name, Amen". To Muslims that very statement negates your entire prayer.
you might find this interesting...
i do not pray in jesus name. i believe that jesus was the name God gave himself on earth because he would not have been able to fufill his purpose if he walked around named God....(this is a silly example i know but much like if i am on aim and i have a screen name. if i cancel my aim account my screen name is deleted but i am still me....sometimes it is difficult to explain ones thoguhts :-[ )
i believe that when jesus was resurected (or when God resurected his human form back to the heavens) he gave up that name jesus because it was no longer needed. so when i pray i say 'My Dear God....' when i am done i say 'amen' or sometimes i pray before bed and enter into a long conversation with God....and then i fall asleep and don't get to say amen...but God is all knowing and he knows where my heart is. and so then i know all is well.
It is so much more than keeping a tradition alive. Islam means submission to the Will of Allah and we have the sunnah how to obey Allah how He wants to be obeyed - not according to our own whims and desires.
christianity is the same. there are laws and rules. ten commandments....... we are definately not instructed to live according to our own whims and desires. i mean we can pick if we want strawberry or grape jam on our toast....but the important things are all in the bible.