things wrong with today's muslims

[Neelam92]

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but is it compulsory as many ppl have asked me, n i dont know what to say i know many muslim gals who r very good mashallah eg read all namaz, dnt do bad stuff but they dnt wear hijab. den ders sum gals who wear jilbab, hijab etc n der doing bad stuff n it makes me angry as to wts da point of wearing it den? so i dnt knw if it is compulsory as sum of dese gals r jus wearing it 2 cover der bad actions.

yeh i understand what u mean its so confusing it makes me angry to like then there r some girls who will cover their hair but then they would like to show abit of hair at the front i mean whats the point cuz like arent u meant to have all ur hair covered and not show a single hair.
its soo confusing

 

[rozeena]

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yeh i understand what u mean its so confusing it makes me angry to like then there r some girls who will cover their hair but then they would like to show abit of hair at the front i mean whats the point cuz like arent u meant to have all ur hair covered and not show a single hair.
its soo confusing

yeh exactly! i saw 1 gal wearin jeans a tight short top, n den she had nikab n i was finkin wts da point of coverin ur face wen u can see evryfing else.

 

[IbnAbdulHakim]

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but is it compulsory as many ppl have asked me, n i dont know what to say i know many muslim gals who r very good mashallah eg read all namaz, dnt do bad stuff but they dnt wear hijab. den ders sum gals who wear jilbab, hijab etc n der doing bad stuff n it makes me angry as to wts da point of wearing it den? so i dnt knw if it is compulsory as sum of dese gals r jus wearing it 2 cover der bad actions.

yeah sis according to all four schools of thoughts wearing a headscarf, not showing any shape of the body (via the burqa , a long dress) is compulsary. But the difference is on if the hands/face/feet are allowed to be shown and when etc. Also there are leniencies,

its not very confusing sis, just talk to an imaam u trust who follows the sunnah, and im sure you'll find the right answer inshaAllah

 

[Neelam92]

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yeh exactly! i saw 1 gal wearin jeans a tight short top, n den she had nikab n i was finkin wts da point of coverin ur face wen u can see evryfing else.

lol hahaha
eh i know makes me angry u know like in the UK u see alot of those stuff...crazy...then it comes back to the position where u think if their parents even taught them about Islam

 

[AhlaamBella]

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yeh exactly! i saw 1 gal wearin jeans a tight short top, n den she had nikab n i was finkin wts da point of coverin ur face wen u can see evryfing else.

People don't understand that 'hijab' isn't just the triangular scarf that you wear outside. It's covering your body from certain males. I often get asked "So, you wear scarf outside?". You don't JUST wear it outside. If a non-mehram enters your house, you wear it there aswell.

 

[IbnAbdulHakim]

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lol hahaha
eh i know makes me angry u know like in the UK u see alot of those stuff...crazy...then it comes back to the position where u think if their parents even taught them about Islam

cant really tell..there are parents who try teach and the kids still are bad, and then there are parents who dont teach at all but the kids turn out to be angels.


i think its more about da friends sometimes, dunno...

 

[Neelam92]

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yeah sis according to all four schools of thoughts wearing a headscarf, not showing any shape of the body (via the burqa , a long dress) is compulsary. But the difference is on if the hands/face/feet are allowed to be shown and when etc. Also there are leniencies,

its not very confusing sis, just talk to an imaam u trust who follows the sunnah, and im sure you'll find the right answer inshaAllah

yeh inshAllah
but when girls do this sort of stuff it makes Islam look bad in a way
like they have banned wearing the hijab in France and in different countries i feel..thats soo bad


HIJAB=FREE
What is exactly going through ur mind?
As ur standing there staring at me?
You call me oppressed,
simply because of the way I'm dressed.
But don’t u see under the hijab that I wear I do care,
My head is not bare.
But remember I’m wearing my hijab,
And I know that makes me strong,
Even though they think its all wrong.
They don’t know it's kind of tough,
Especially when times like this comes which makes it rough.
They think that I do not have opinions or voice,
they think that being hooded isn't my choice.
I have a voice so I will be heard,
for in my heart I carry His word.
Now it’s my time to turn and say,
‘But don’t u see that I am truly free,
This piece of cloth I wear so proudly,
To preserve my dignity,
All I wanted is equality
Why can’t u just accept me for who I am?
I walk away with a smile and say,
‘I’m the one who is free’
Do you see someone limited?
Or someone free?

 

[rozeena]

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lol hahaha
eh i know makes me angry u know like in the UK u see alot of those stuff...crazy...then it comes back to the position where u think if their parents even taught them about Islam

yeh u see sum funi ppl here inda uk lol. my parents have neva told me 2 wear da hijab, although they have taught me basic fings like praying namaz fasting etc n dat i shud be gud muslim. n wen i did wear it of my own choice i was finkin is dis compulsory, cus lukin around ders sum ppl who do n do bad stuff like anoda incident i remembered i went 2da gym 2days ago n saw dis lady wiv full jilbab etc, n den went outside 2 buy a drink n wen i cum bak shes standin inda alley having a fag n i was like HUH! wts hapnin here! but smoking is haram in islam isnt it cus ive seen sooo many ppl do it2

 

[Neelam92]

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cant really tell..there are parents who try teach and the kids still are bad, and then there are parents who dont teach at all but the kids turn out to be angels.


i think its more about da friends sometimes, dunno...

acually yeh ur right it could be friends or maybe they dont want others to say sumthing in school when they wear the hijab to tell u the truth i was like that when i firstly wore the hijab to school i was all scared that people will come and say something but they didnt wich was good but i did get like strange looks like i was some sort of alien lol hehehe
but that doesnt matter in the end cuz ur doing it for Allah swt

 

[rozeena]

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cant really tell..there are parents who try teach and the kids still are bad, and then there are parents who dont teach at all but the kids turn out to be angels.


i think its more about da friends sometimes, dunno...

definatly! Totali agree. frends play a large roll in how sum1 turns out. If ur wid da rong ppl ull be influenced inda rong way.

 

[IbnAbdulHakim]

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^ yeah, the prophet sallallahi alaihi wasallaam said to the effect of (when talking about friends) stick around with the perfume seller and you'll come out smelling sweet, stick around with the black smith and you'll smell of nasty smoke.

see we cant avoid the smoke, thats why we shud let go of bad friends even if we think we're strong... ive seen really amazing people dragged down due to bad friends, its sad..

 

[Neelam92]

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yeh u see sum funi ppl here inda uk lol. my parents have neva told me 2 wear da hijab, although they have taught me basic fings like praying namaz fasting etc n dat i shud be gud muslim. n wen i did wear it of my own choice i was finkin is dis compulsory, cus lukin around ders sum ppl who do n do bad stuff like anoda incident i remembered i went 2da gym 2days ago n saw dis lady wiv full jilbab etc, n den went outside 2 buy a drink n wen i cum bak shes standin inda alley having a fag n i was like HUH! wts hapnin here! but smoking is haram in islam isnt it cus ive seen sooo many ppl do it2

yeh i know its crazy
i hate people who smoke makes me feel sick after all i did have cancer cuz of my grand dad who is dead now he smoked i hated it errrrrrr
like in my school there r muslim girls who wear the hijab on and stuff and like at lunch go and hide in the toilets and smoke as tho their parents arent gonna find out i do sometimes want to go tell their parents but naaaa let them kill themeselves. sick

 

[IbnAbdulHakim]

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ok lol lets chill out a bit, people will try follow islam as much as they can, but temptations are temptations innit...

maybe that lady feels really guilty everytime she smokes but the addiction forces her too.

im jus sayin we shudnt be too quik..lol

 

[rozeena]

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yeh i know its crazy
i hate people who smoke makes me feel sick after all i did have cancer cuz of my grand dad who is dead now he smoked i hated it errrrrrr
like in my school there r muslim girls who wear the hijab on and stuff and like at lunch go and hide in the toilets and smoke as tho their parents arent gonna find out i do sometimes want to go tell their parents but naaaa let them kill themeselves. sick

yeh ive experienced it myself at work tooo. n its like wats da point, although its bad if a muslim does it, bt wen sum1 wiv hijab does it its even worsa cus u knw blatanly dat der muslim so ufink wat da hell r der doing, n dat der givin a bad name.sori sis did u say u had cancer? im sori if i misunderstood

 

[Neelam92]

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^ yeah, the prophet sallallahi alaihi wasallaam said to the effect of (when talking about friends) stick around with the perfume seller and you'll come out smelling sweet, stick around with the black smith and you'll smell of nasty smoke.

see we cant avoid the smoke, thats why we shud let go of bad friends even if we think we're strong... ive seen really amazing people dragged down due to bad friends, its sad..

yeh true bro
but sometimes makes me wonder if they even know that smoking is bad then why bother i mean its not like ur gonna get anything out of it
u even get it teachen in school these days about how bad smoking is but ppl still dont seem to care...i mean do they even have the brain

 

[rozeena]

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ok lol lets chill out a bit, people will try follow islam as much as they can, but temptations are temptations innit...

maybe that lady feels really guilty everytime she smokes but the addiction forces her too.

im jus sayin we shudnt be too quik..lol

errm yeah probli! yeh i supose we shudnt judge ppl jus like dat we dont know wt shes going through etc. feel bad now.

 

[Neelam92]

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ok lol lets chill out a bit, people will try follow islam as much as they can, but temptations are temptations innit...

maybe that lady feels really guilty everytime she smokes but the addiction forces her too.

im jus sayin we shudnt be too quik..lol

lol hehahaha yeh ok lets chill out for a bit
whohooooo ok im calm now lol

 

[IbnAbdulHakim]

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yeh true bro
but sometimes makes me wonder if they even know that smoking is bad then why bother i mean its not like ur gonna get anything out of it
u even get it teachen in school these days about how bad smoking is but ppl still dont seem to care...i mean do they even have the brain

lol the example was sayin that no matter how good you try to be, you WILL be influenced by your friends...

ye sis smokin is bad, my uncle had 2 heart attacks before he finally quit... Alhamdulillah..

 

[Neelam92]

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yeh ive experienced it myself at work tooo. n its like wats da point, although its bad if a muslim does it, bt wen sum1 wiv hijab does it its even worsa cus u knw blatanly dat der muslim so ufink wat da hell r der doing, n dat der givin a bad name.sori sis did u say u had cancer? im sori if i misunderstood

yeh i had cancer sis it was leukemia (blood cancer)

 

[rozeena]

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yeh i had cancer sis it was leukemia (blood cancer)

reali! r u better now?