things wrong with today's muslims

[Neelam92]

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reali! r u better now?

yeh yeh sis ll better now alhandulila
i was diagnosed with it when i was 8 and finished treatment when i was 12 so im all fine now and now im 15 so its all good

 

[rozeena]

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im realy glad your better sis. i get sad when i hear ppl wid these sort of stuff

 

[welcome_islam]

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it's not just girl taking headscarves off who degrade Islam, but now i see alot of girls wearing the whole nikab, burka, gloves who are degrading Islam. i think ppl r just not taking Islam seriously. :thumbs_do

thats what i think, they should.
boys in my school have girlfriends and then when its namaz time they get their hats on acting they are real muslims.

When i used to go to read quran, they teached how to read namaz, and i was reading namaz and next to me there were these girls who get talking in their namaz to each other, i was well cross, because i couldnt not read my namaz is peace.
i think that completely wrong and they are telling everyone that they are muslims.

 

[AhlaamBella]

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thats what i think, they should.
boys in my school have girlfriends and then when its namaz time they get their hats on acting they are real muslims.

At least they are praying. Some people our age don't even do that

 

[IbnAbdulHakim]

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i think we need to educate our brothers and sisters and let them know just how wrong these actions are...

see shaytaan is good at making sins look small...

 

[Intisar]

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wat does wajib mean? it is compuslory to wear hijab? ive asked this qustion probli millions of times lol. Ive read different books etc. but different books state different fings. sum say u have to sum say u dnt as it isnt stated anywhere, but what u do have to do is wear loose clothing and lenthen ur tops etc. so bit confusing?

Sis, wajib just means compulsory, Allah ordained for us in the Quran as women to wear the hijab.

“Say to believing women, that they cast down their eyes and guard their private parts, and reveal not their adornment save such as is outward; and let them drape their headcoverings over their bosoms, and not reveal their adornment” (Qur’an 24:31)



Whoever told you that it's not compulsory..errrm, you probably shouldn't seek their knowledge again lol.

As a Muslimah, you can only show your hands and face. This is for the sole purpose of protecting yourself from Zina (fornication, and sex before marriage) by making you stay chaste. By not showing parts of yourself that attract the opposite gender, you are helping them to lower their gaze and also protecting yourself.

May Allah protect all the Muslimahs around the world. Ameen.

 

[welcome_islam]

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At least they are praying. Some people our age don't even do that

yeah but they not even reading it properly, they think they are but they are not. some people laugh and during namaz and that really gets on my nerves.

 

[welcome_islam]

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i think we need to educate our brothers and sisters and let them know just how wrong these actions are...

see shaytaan is good at making sins look small...

true but how? i dont think they are going to listen to us, if they like that.
i no, i been there, correcting their mistakes.

 

[jzcasejz]

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As-Salaamu'alaykum

i think we need to educate our brothers and sisters and let them know just how wrong these actions are...

see shaytaan is good at making sins look small...

That's true. We know the steps they're taking are wrong...so now it's just a matter of educating them.

true but how? i dont think they are going to listen to us, if they like that.
i no, i been there, correcting their mistakes.

Well yeah that's true, it's gonna be wierd just going up to, say like, any random person and saying "Wear the Niqaab!". You can start off with the people you know and explaining to them that the reason behind them wearing the Hijaab is contradictory to the actions they're doing. It's just a matter of educating them and once they realise, who knows, maybe they'll change for the best. InshaAllaah. :thumbs_up

 

[chaste]

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i never got forced to wear the hijab none of us sisters did. it's just something that just automatically happened to me. i feel bare without my hijab

 

[Ebtisweetsam]

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O think this whole post should be closed.........people are just basically backstabbing other Muslims.... no one can judge one another.:threadclo

 

[AhlaamBella]

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umm.....the thread ain't closed sis

 

[Ourra-Tul-'Ain]

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what do you hate in islam that muslims are doing wrong, for example

i hate when girls at my school, they wear scarf when they coming in to school, when their fathers are watching and take it off when their fathe or mothers are gone. When its home time they put their scarfs back on.. i am thinking y r u a muslims if u feel ashamed wear their scarf in front of their mates...

that really annoys me.

'In the name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful'
sallam

I do understand what you are saying sister. But when I was younger (I’m 20 now) I never used to where the hijab. Then all of a sudden my parents was like “you have to where it!!!!” ( I was like 15)..so I rebelled against the hijab. don’t get me wrong. I totally loved my deen, even though I did not know 2 much about it…………..anyways it is no good telling your children to where the hijab, AND NOT TELL THEM THE IMPOTENSE OF IT, AND THE REASONS BEHIND IT! Because by Allah I did not understand the wisdom behind it, I think my parents was thinking I might not understand even if they tell me, or may be they did not know how to put it in words(if that makes any sense)

Inshallah parents should take there children to sister/brother circles from a young age. Alhamdullilah I have been a practising muslimah since I was 18, n I where the full hijab now. (AND MASHALLAH I WHERE IT PROUDLY)

I promise you majority of them girls are pushed to where the hijab without even an explanation of the wisdom behind it. that’s why they can not do the hijab justice.

 

[jzcasejz]

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As-Salaamu'alaykum

I promise you majority of them girls are pushed to where the hijab without even an explanation of the wisdom behind it. that’s why they can not do the hijab justice.

Yes, MashaAllaah, well explained. If they knew the very reason to why it's upon them to wear it..then InshaAllaah they'll understand. It's just a matter of educating the people.

JazaakAllaah Khayr for your post.

 

[Ourra-Tul-'Ain]

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As-Salaamu'alaykum



Yes, MashaAllaah, well explained. If they knew the very reason to why it's upon them to wear it..then InshaAllaah they'll understand. It's just a matter of educating the people.

JazaakAllaah Khayr for your post.

its cool bro, just felt that i should explain on behalf of them sisters.

and inshallah, we will all learn to educate our kids regarding the deen, (then we might not have a shock when our teenager rebels against the hijabkay: )

 

[Neelam92]

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im realy glad your better sis. i get sad when i hear ppl wid these sort of stuff

no worries sis,,,im just glad im still here cuz i wasnt supposed to live so thank Allah swt

 

[welcome_islam]

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'In the name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful'
sallam

I do understand what you are saying sister. But when I was younger (I’m 20 now) I never used to where the hijab. Then all of a sudden my parents was like “you have to where it!!!!” ( I was like 15)..so I rebelled against the hijab. don’t get me wrong. I totally loved my deen, even though I did not know 2 much about it…………..anyways it is no good telling your children to where the hijab, AND NOT TELL THEM THE IMPOTENSE OF IT, AND THE REASONS BEHIND IT! Because by Allah I did not understand the wisdom behind it, I think my parents was thinking I might not understand even if they tell me, or may be they did not know how to put it in words(if that makes any sense)

Inshallah parents should take there children to sister/brother circles from a young age. Alhamdullilah I have been a practising muslimah since I was 18, n I where the full hijab now. (AND MASHALLAH I WHERE IT PROUDLY)

I promise you majority of them girls are pushed to where the hijab without even an explanation of the wisdom behind it. that’s why they can not do the hijab justice.

mashallah so do i, when i small i used to hate it. so my parents to me that i had to wear it at 9 when i was at home, and now i am sixteen i am used it, and i loved wearing it. my parents told me the reason why i had to wear it so that was. That is true, parents should tell their children the real reason.

i used to been picked on because i wore the hijab, but i didn't care. it was my life not their's. I think parents should tell things about islam before it too late. when they grow older they wont care and will boss thier parents about becasue they are too old to boss thier children.

 

[Neelam92]

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mashallah so do i, when i small i used to hate it. so my parents to me that i had to wear it at 9 when i was at home, and now i am sixteen i am used it, and i loved wearing it. my parents told me the reason why i had to wear it so that was. That is true, parents should tell their children the real reason.

i used to been picked on because i wore the hijab, but i didn't care. it was my life not their's. I think parents should tell things about islam before it too late. when they grow older they wont care and will boss thier parents about becasue they are too old to boss thier children.

yeh true,,,people at school used to say stuf to me but i stood up to them once and they stopped so it was cool and now they havent sed a word like some people when they see a girl with a hijab on they think that their all soft and wont say anything but they dont know so its all wierd.
i love my hijab so much

 

[welcome_islam]

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As-Salaamu'alaykum



That's true. We know the steps they're taking are wrong...so now it's just a matter of educating them.



Well yeah that's true, it's gonna be wierd just going up to, say like, any random person and saying "Wear the Niqaab!". You can start off with the people you know and explaining to them that the reason behind them wearing the Hijaab is contradictory to the actions they're doing. It's just a matter of educating them and once they realise, who knows, maybe they'll change for the best. InshaAllaah. :thumbs_up

that is true, but if your friends or classmates dont wear hijab, and if we tell them " Do you no why people wear the hijab".... they might say to us we dont care. it our choice if we want to wear or not so why are uo butting in". i no they are going to say that because i told someone that and they told me to butt out.

 

[Neelam92]

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that is true, but if your friends or classmates dont wear hijab, and if we tell them " Do you no why people wear the hijab".... they might say to us we dont care. it our choice if we want to wear or not so why are uo butting in". i no they are going to say that because i told someone that and they told me to butt out.

yeh same here thats exactly what i got told when i asked a girl why doesnt she wear the hijab after all u r a muslim
but i guess that many girls dont wear the hijab cuz they dont like to show that they r muslim