I apologise this post is long, but please read it all, as I've used some analogies to explain things in a different way and made some new points.
And also The Christian god is 3 in one. Like 3 egos, personalities whatever you want to call it. That is how I perceive it.
Does that make more sense to you, truly and deeply in your heart, rather than One God? A Christian cannot talk about One God, without mentioning the number three. It is not, in that case, truly a concept of One God. In Christianity 3 = 1. In Islam 1=1. The concept in Islam is so simple, clear, logical, makes sense, is easy to understand and grasp, and resonates with the heart and mind and soul. Now compare to God the father, who had to beget god the son, so that he could have god the son killed in a painful, slow and torturous bloody death to atone for mankinds sins. If you can have God the son then surely there must be God the daughter somewhere. And God the cousin. etc. And then he sent God the holy spirit to live in our bodies.
This is Allah:
One God. He alone should be worshipped. He is our Creator, Sustainer, and Lord.
He does not beget, nor is He begotten. He has no sons, daughters, spouses, siblings, parents, cousins, or relatives of any sort.
He is eternal and does not die. He does not depend on anyone/anything yet we all depend on Him. He is free of all want and need.
There is nothing like Him. He is all Hearing, all Seeing, all Knowing, all Powerful, Incomparable, the Creator of the Universe.
He did not/does not, become flesh, dwell in human or animal bodies, nor are there any incarnations of Him. He is not mixed up in His creation in any way.
He is not composed of persons, nor a trinity. There are no secondary, lesser, greater, equal, or multiple gods, nor any intermediaries. And no denying of God's existence either.
There are no sharers, associates, persons or parts whatsoever in His exclusive Divinity. Simply, He is One, in every sense.
As you can see, the concept is clear, simple, logical, makes sense, and befits the Majesty of God.
In Hinduism, there is belief that God incarnated into the body of animals such as an elephant etc. In Christianity there is belief that God incarnated into a human body, that of Jesus (peace be on him). The beliefs in incarnation of God are similar, one says a animal body, the other says a human body. How can God be reduced to coming in lowly forms and going to the toilet, crying like a baby, coming out of a woman's womb?
Let's say, a persons parent brought him up, gave him everything he needed, tended to his every need. That child, when he grows up, goes to his neighbour halfway down the street and says, thank you for everything you've given me, everything you've done for me, for bringing me up etc. You'd think that person had lost the plot, right? And how would his parents feel? Christians say, thank you Jesus, for everything. You will be thanking other than God. It is Allah, Glorified and Exalted be He, who has given you everything. Not Isa alayhissalaam, as respected and noble a messenger as he is.
As to hell. If you are thinking, wow God is so much more loving and caring in Christianity. Then know this. In Christianity, mankind is eternally d.a.m.n.e.d because of Adam eating from the tree. And there is nothing you can do. Whether you are sinful or not, you are doomed. the only way out, is, for you have a saviour who will save you from this d.a.m.nation. And for this, as I mentioned God had to beget a son and then have him killed. Akhi, use your brain. Why would Allah do this? This ascribes injustice to Allah, that he kills an innocent person. It ascribes injustice to him that he makes someone else carry the sins of another and lets a sinner get away scot free. It denigrates Allahs power, by suggesting he couldn't forgive mankind simply by forgiving and had to beget a son and have him killed. It makes Allah into a cruel God who d.a.m.n.s all of mankind for a sin they didn't commit.
Many people get taken in by "For God so loved the world that he gave His only son..."
But if he so loved the world, he would have forgiven Adam and Eve. Like He did, and like Islam says. But Christianity says:
To the woman He said, “I will greatly multiply Your pain in childbirth, In pain you will bring forth children;
Yet your desire will be for your husband, And he will rule over you.”
Then to Adam He said, “Because you have listened to the voice of your wife, and have eaten from the tree about which I commanded you, saying, ‘You shall not eat from it’;
Cursed is the ground because of you; In toil you will eat of it All the days of your life. “Both thorns and thistles it shall grow for you; And you will eat the plants of the field; By the sweat of your face You will eat bread,
Till you return to the ground, Because from it you were taken; For you are dust, And to dust you shall return.” (Genesis 3:16-19)
Compare with Islam:
When they both ate from the tree, they repented to Allah.
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Then Adam received from his Lord [some] words, and He accepted his repentance. Indeed, it is He who is the Accepting of repentance, the Merciful." (2:37)
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Then his Lord chose him and turned to him in forgiveness and guided [him]." (20:122)
They both repented and
both were completely forgiven by their Loving, Merciful Lord; and indeed Adam was then chosen to be the first person to receive guidance from Allah, and is counted among all the other Prophets of Islam:
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Indeed, Allah chose Adam and Noah and the family of Abraham and the family of 'Imran over the worlds" -(3:33)
Lets imaging, now, you are sitting an exam. Someone says they'll take your bad marks for you. Will you be gullible and believe them? Or will you know, that you will be judged on your own merit. And nobody, rightly, takes responsibility for what you have done. Similarly, please do not be gullible enough to believe that any person any object, anything, will carry the burden of your sins, or died for your sins. If you do so, you are deceiving yourself, and making the biggest mistake of your life. You are despairing of the mercy of Allah.
Islam recognises God's power to forgive with just His Will. Some of the other religions seem to claim that forgiveness requires a purchase price and if we can't pay it, somebody else has to pay it on our behalf. In Islam, forgiveness comes without a purchase price or sacrifice. We do not/cannot: buy, sacrifice for, earn or steal it. It comes freely when we sincerely ask for forgiveness and truly repent, accepting God's will.
We are required to try our hardest and best to love, fear and obey God, and obey the messengers He sent with His message. ""So fear Allah as much as you are able and listen and obey and spend [in the way of Allah ]; it is better for your selves..." (Qur'an 64:16, part)" and we have been told which things are forbidden for us and what we should avoid. When we do those things that we shouldn't, then we repent and seek God's forgiveness, being truly sorry for what we have done, trying our best not to repeat it, and acknowledging Allah as being the only One on Whom we depend, for the forgiveness of our sins.
God does not expect perfection from us, but simply for us to worship Him alone without any associates, persons or parts to His Exclusive Divinity, and to not ascribe divinity to anybody or anything else, and to do our very best and try our very hardest with all our heart, body and soul, to love and obey Him and the messengers He sent. His Mercy opening the doors to salvation and paradise.
For Christians, this may be hard. They believe that by accepting Jesus (peace be upon him) as their saviour they have an assurance of salvation, and view the Islamic position on salvation as being one of uncertainty. As a rough (not exact) analogy, the Christian position, is like one sitting an exam, but somebody has said they'll take all your bad marks for you, and if you let them do that, you'll pass. In the world, this would be viewed as cheating and as unjust. Injustice cannot be ascribed to God. The Islamic position is that of one sitting an exam, doing their best, and then awaiting their results, based on what they've done, and of course hoping for the mercy of God.
We strive, and hope for God's Mercy and trust in Him, for none is more trustworthy than He, but for Christians, it is as though they must have a guarantee from God. We need no such guarantee, and do not feel in any way compromised by not having one, which is a key point where, as demonstrated, they try to catch Muslims. None of us would have a guarantee of passing an exam until we got our results, and this is no different. What greater thing is there than Gods Mercy? We try our best and hope for His Mercy and trust in His Promise, no guarantees needed, as He is not a human who will let us down, or be unjust, on the contrary we will not be wronged by even the spot on a date stone.
Also remember, that Jesus followed the law, prayed, fasted, gave in charity (salaat, saum, zakat) etc. And taught his followers that they must do so as well. I have talked about the burden issue before. Your attraction seems to be do less, gain more. No need to follow the law, accept a saviour, and get to heaven easily. Imagine a salesperson puts an advert for a brand new latest iphone (6s?), for say £10. No monthly cost, no other cost, that's it, and the advert promises you this. You'd raise an eyebrow, right? You'd think it was some kind of scam. You'd try to verify it. Or you'd avoid it like the plague, preferring to pay more but buy from a reliable source. Yes? Do you get the drift? If it sounds too good to be true, it is. There is no free ticket to heaven. Certainly not by committing shirk and ascribing cruelty and injustice to Allah, sub'haanahu wa ta'aalaa.
Please do not make your salvation depend on a core belief that you don't understand, can't explain, doesn't make sense, and isn't mentioned explicitly anywhere in the Bible (the trinity). It is not the nature of God to give convoluted beliefs to people, that don't make sense.
That’s why we call you, brother Strivingfordeen, back to Islam, in which the concept is very clear. There’s One God, He’s indivisible, He doesn’t have children, nor relatives, nor grandparents, and He does not die. Compare this with there’s one God who had 3 different godheads, but at the same time, they’re still 1, one of them dies for three days, & instead of being 2 (or ⅔), they’re still 1, even though they’re physically separated. Which of these two is easier to understand? If we explained this to a child now, which one is easier for them?
Why would Allah present people with a concept that doesn’t make logical sense to you, doesn’t agree with humans naturally, you don’t understand it, you can’t explain it, and then tell you that to be saved you have to believe in this strange concept? Please think about it.
That’s why we call you back to Islam, in which you don’t have to separate between your logical self and your spiritual self, where the concepts make sense. We call you to a religion in which there is One God, none other is worthy of worship except Him, He sent prophets & messengers (including Jesus peace be upon him) to guide and warn humanity, and this is the message that has always been.
Sorry if some of it is a bit blunt but there is no easy way to point out the obvious and try and get you to think/ponder/reflect. I request you as before, to please read carefully, and respond with any further queries/clarifications sought, and let us know whether that has helped, and what other points we can help you with/explain.