What would you ask a potential partner?

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I would ask her, how many kiddos can u handle? My desire is to have as many possible, hopefully 8 twins :)
 
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^ that just made me think of something. Rather than asking her how many she could handle (how would she know anyway?) ... wouldnt you put her first and be easy on her instead....I mean 8 twins? U mean 8 sets? :eek: or 4? :skeleton:
 
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lol, uhm yes u r right i will break it down easily, like how many u wish to have.
Yep 8 twins, like that thread u posted, if that would happen to me i'd be the happiest guy alive :D
 
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Oh Lordd! :skeleton:

You mean octuplets?

Ya Allah have mercy on Mikayeel's future wife. Ameen.

Anyway am outta this thread :D

WassalamuAlaykum
 
simplicity786 said:
lol if you can provide for 8 then why not ask that question
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Allah is the provider for the kids :D, thats never an excuse, saying i dnt want have kids cuz am not finacially stable, have them and inshAllah allah will open new 'risk(arabic)' for u.

:w: :)
 
Why would you wanna ask that?? If Allah (swt) has concealed his/her sins then who are you to ask. If its in the past then its in the past, name one person who hasnt done something wrong or something they have repented for. If they tell you then they will, if not I think you should leave em. You can ask the ppl who know him/her a little about the character and from there deduce if they're the kinda person who would do any of the above. Wallahu A'lam.
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I personally wouldn't want to ask those questions, I don't judge people on their past but i know plenty of people who wouldn't even consider marrying someone with a shady past. In fact in this day and age, it's become common for people to ask for their future hubby/wife to have an HIV test done. Besides there are some habits that some people never kick like gambling or drugs, so it would be good to know those things
 
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Mikayeel said:
I would ask her, how many kiddos can u handle? My desire is to have as many possible, hopefully 8 twins

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Then ask away bro!
I would like to ask the same q (not 8 kids) but have been told it will not be err, polite or not courteous to do so. I 'll have to get to know tho.
 
Sabeeha said:
Then ask away bro!
I would like to ask the same q (not 8 kids) but have been told it will not be err, polite or not courteous to do so. I 'll have to get to know tho.
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Its a very important question maybe not the very polite to ask straightaway, but before you marry some one at some stage u have to ask him how many kids u planning to get, or how many r u happy with (nd then hope for this answer) THe more the better ofcourse!!!! :D

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Alpha Dude said:
^ I don't get 3 and 4.

Sounds threatening. :hmm:
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It's more to see how she sees her self and what she thinks of herself. I'll obviously say it without an accusatory tone of voice :P

Isn't this too ambiguous? She could say anything. "I am... sitting here right now" lol
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Yeah that's sorta the point..to break the ice. It's a little weird if we're both sitting there super serious and talking as if we're discussing a business transaction.

Yep 8 twins, like that thread u posted, if that would happen to me i'd be the happiest guy alive :D
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Hahaha me too bro! But I guess family planning is down the road, and in the Hands of Allaah at the end of the day.

Imagine some poor brother has four wives and by the decree of Allaah each wife bears him octuplets. Poor soul.
 
Hey at the same time a new record. I'm going to try to have 5. But I would first see myself finincially and my wife if she's physically fit. After that is settled I'm
Going to spread them apart on a timeline :D
 
Abu Sayyad said:
Yeah that's sorta the point..to break the ice. It's a little weird if we're both sitting there super serious and talking as if we're discussing a business transaction.
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AsSalamOAlaikum WaRehmatuAllah WaBarkatuhu

Well akhi, for some marriage is just a piece of paper, or a passport, it simply a business transaction imsad

 FiAmaaniAllah
 
Yes it is because to save millions worth of property or because of an oath.
 
That is true. Half the people on muslim marriage sites are looking for visas anyway.
 
Mikayeel said:
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I would ask her, how many kiddos can u handle? My desire is to have as many possible, hopefully 8 twins :)
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:w: Akhee good luck with that, you sound like you're making a demand. Especially since you're not the one who's going to give birth to them.

I saw a woman who was pregnant with only five children, her stomach kept moving about, I swear I saw a little foot or something. An imprint of some sort. :offended:

The kids are 2 now and they all scream and follow eachother. Six twins! 4 boys and 2 girls subhanAllaah!

You should watch that show on TLC ''Jon and Kate: Plus 8'', those little kids are clever.
 
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I have considered that, and what i find is that women go through a difficult period a man must appreciate that and alhamdulilah i do.

The demanding bit was a mere joke, may Allah bless me with many kids. :)

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Mikayeel said:
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I have considered that, and what i find is that women go through a difficult period a man must appreciate that and alhamdulilah i do.

The demanding bit was a mere joke, may Allah bless me with many kids. :)

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:w: I know, but just think of it...six screaming children! You need a lot of sabr for that. :offended:

You know if you do get blessed with that many kids inshaa'Allaah, in the labour room you'll practically be giving birth too, it's only fair. :D
 
Mikayeel said:
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I would ask her, how many kiddos can u handle? My desire is to have as many possible, hopefully 8 twins :)
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Lol. 8 sets of twins?! That's 16 kids! If you mean 4 sets of twins equaling 8 kids altogether, that that's slightly less crazy.:p . But, wouldn't it be better to have say 4 kids and raise them properly rather than 10+ and not cope?

Just a thought.
 
I would ask her, how many kiddos can u handle? My desire is to have as many possible, hopefully 8 twins
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then how about get married to 4 women every one gives birth for 2 kids. that seems fair!
 

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