Cut..CUT..=Yes/No?!

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Have you ever harmed yourself?

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I did it one time when I am 13 or 14 not remeber

I was trying to make a ball basket by cutting a plastic box, I was cutting very hardly the bottom of it, then ..... suddenly, I cut my hand instead of the box layer (that was harmful):cry::cry::cry:
 
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But wasn't that an accident sis? Lol I meant when you do it deliberately...
 
Ourra-Tul-'Ain said:
Wallahi i know someone just like that bro!

sheikhs say there is no jinn n dat in her. it seemed like it to me:hmm:

but anyways she wears the niqab one day the next she is wearing skinny jeans n some house party.

she takes these pills which also make her FAT.

i think it is the evil eye:scared:.........as MashAllah she was such a pritty young girl who loved her deen.

Allah knows best, just make lots of dua for your cousin:sunny:
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does she have manic depression?
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I have never harmed my self!

btw I am not surprised there more sisters who harm then selves :( I knew a few who do over stupid reasons :(
 
another dead thread resurrected :mmokay:

i think MOST people that do self harm, do it for attention honestly, because if you really wana harm yourself, jump of a buildin!

but there are some who do it, because they might feel helpless about somethin, but its haraam and its not gona help anyway, so i hope all the people that do it, do realise that its stupid, they should get talking to people, if they sad or down! thats the best way, harming yourself wont help!!
 
^ sometimes you may not find the people you really need available to talk to, and they want to harm themselves not kill themselves. Most people realise the haramness of suiciding but not self-harm.

I think if people didnt vent up stress and anxiety then they would never reach that stage to begin with, they need an outlet, i guess that can be islaam
 
chacha_jalebi said:
another dead thread resurrected :mmokay:
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I BUMPed this thread because a lot of people can benefit from it. I’m sorry my actions were not preferred by you.

i think MOST people that do self harm, do it for attention honestly, because if you really wana harm yourself, jump of a buildin!

but there are some who do it, because they might feel helpless about somethin, but its haraam and its not gona help anyway, so i hope all the people that do it, do realise that its stupid, they should get talking to people, if they sad or down! thats the best way, harming yourself wont help!!
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Yes but some people get addicted to it, it's a like a drug. Once started can't stop.
 
qassy! said:
I have never harmed my self!

btw I am not surprised there more sisters who harm then selves :( I knew a few who do over stupid reasons :(
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lol...i already saw ur other post..they crazy tho.lol...



wow girls got 26 and boys got 4 ...heres probably the reason...girls stay in the kitchen and cook...cuttin..all that...brothers barely got reasons...4...lol:embarrass:D:w:
 
AhLÄÄM said:
:salamext:

I BUMPed this thread because a lot of people can benefit from it. I’m sorry my actions were not preferred by you.

Yes but some people get addicted to it, it's a like a drug. Once started can't stop.
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lol sister, i didnt mean it in a bad wayyy:statisfie

but like it wont help them, looking back at the scars and stuff, that will just bring it all back!

anyone who feels the urge to do it, i swear talk to anyone, even me!! and talkin just makes it so much better, honestly you will realise harmin isnt the way forward

and people usually harm themselfs over a boy/girl. or failed in exams

come on these are small issues man, if the boy/girl really cared for you, would they let you harm yourself? and why harm your body, when Allah (swt) has created it for you!!

people should think stuff through and they will realise its stupid
 
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and people usually harm themselfs over a boy/girl. or failed in exams
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Sometimes people have more serious problems in their life, which they find hard to cope with, and they feel as if no one understand them, so that is their one escape out of reality.
 
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I thought they did it to feel something other than mental pain and when cutting yourself you reach that goal, because at that moment you can only feel that physical pain which gets your mind of the mental pain I guess. Then it becomes a drug.

Those who would go to such lenghts to get some relief, seriously need help. These people mostly suffer from some sort of depression and should seek help bi idni Allah.

Also, we tend to think that those people just want attention or like the drama. I don't think this is the case. Those that suffer from some sort of depression need appropriate treatment, be it psychotherapy, medications etc.

Wa Allahu A'lam.
 
AhLÄÄM said:
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Sometimes people have more serious problems in their life, which they find hard to cope with, and they feel as if no one understand them, so that is their one escape out of reality.
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even more serious problems,

i promise you sis, anyone has any problem, self harm will not solve that problem, it will add to the pain, imagine your hurting from the inside, and then you hurt yourself from the outside, thats just double hurt!!

its not gona help, turn to Allah (swt) when you feel down, talk to him, honestly you will feel better and talk to others, they can give you good advice!

but if anyone turns to harm, it wont help them and they will just be sinnin!!
 
chacha_jalebi said:
even more serious problems,

i promise you sis, anyone has any problem, self harm will not solve that problem, it will add to the pain, imagine your hurting from the inside, and then you hurt yourself from the outside, thats just double hurt!!

its not gona help, turn to Allah (swt) when you feel down, talk to him, honestly you will feel better and talk to others, they can give you good advice!

but if anyone turns to harm, it wont help them and they will just be sinnin!!
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There are those who have suffered from much more horrible things and will not get into a depression and others which much smaller issues on their mind and will get depressed. There's a serious problem (serotonin, hormones, the brain etc.) If you suffer from depressions you won't be able to look at your situation with such logic as you and I can. It's just not that easy. If it was, why would we even treat people with depression? Why not just tell them to get over it? Why not? because it's a disease.
 
^ yeah but anti-depressents dont help, they only make things worser. Im actually quite angry at the doctors of my mentally disturbed cousin, they prescribed her anti-depressents and all its done is make her humungous and she shakes a lot.

Apparently its working though... even though we see no signs of that...


i guess the only cure to depression is contentment?!
 
women are more prone because they have much more stress levels then men do. On average women have more responsabilities period. I can see where they come to the point of self harm, but now we are aware of this matter it's up to us to help anyway that we can. I'm here if anyone needs to talk...
 
What we have is lacking of strong eman and islamic knowledge for these individuals. strong eman is built on good islamic knowledge. The knowledge will keep things in perspective for the person so that he/she will know what is qadr, will learn sabr in hard times, will know the reward for those who have sabr, will the right your body has over you (including not being harmed), will k now duas to keep safe from evil eye ,sihr, and shayateen, and other things to deal with this "illness"
 

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