Souljette
Souljette Of Allah
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Salamualikum,
I agree with bro chacha_jalebi to an extent like it reallyy gets to me that ppl cut themselves and all honestly I had 6 or 7 friends who did it and they wouldn't tell me or they stopped and many i talked to and i would tell them to stop tell them that its wrong and that there is no point to it...looking bak they'll think they were so stupid..yes there are people who want attention and that is why they do this but there are people who have no confidence whatsoever or faith in Allah(S.W.T) and they start doing this..I don't see a point to it..this topic would get me veryyy angry at times and i would say it to all of them that what's the point..i don't get it if you want to kill yourself just tell me..lol ok that reallyy scared them..i would talk to them all the time and made them promise me not to do it again and out of all of them one still did it and SHOWED IT TO ME...i got soo angry i hit her there and she got the point..i didn't hurt her hurt her but enough for her to get it..that was just askin for attention..somedays ago i gave a lecture to this other girl telling her why its rong and all because she was getting realllyy addicted to it..and it's truu when you get addicted to it ...it is veryyyy hard to stop...and you need a friend to help you through and most of all faith in Allah(s.w.t) ...I think these sisters and brothers need to be kept busy because when they are busy they don't really think of it as much while brothers and sisters who aren't that busy they think too much about it and causing self-harm.. i mean think about brothers and sisters in Iraq...everyday they are wishing for one more day and over here we are trying hurt ourselves...I would bring this example to my friends..and most people like bro chacha_jalebi said..hurt themselves over useless material dunya things that are not worth going to hell for...like when in love with boyfriends/gf and they hurt you..yes different people have different ways to deal with things and some don't have any at all and these people need help from friends who help them stop or psychologists ... sometimes you have to talk to them by taking things in perspective like giving them examples and understanding their problem but yet sayin that they can deal wit it..that they can handle it..Allah doesn't put something your way if you can't handle it...I mean i would lecture my friends telling them that' its wrong that they had no excuse for it ...that they should think about people who don't even have time to think about this stuff yet they go through far more than people in the states or canada or anywhere else or dubai whatever...but many depressed people care about themselves and could care less about the world and even then you gotta tell them they can handle it..
I agree with bro chacha_jalebi to an extent like it reallyy gets to me that ppl cut themselves and all honestly I had 6 or 7 friends who did it and they wouldn't tell me or they stopped and many i talked to and i would tell them to stop tell them that its wrong and that there is no point to it...looking bak they'll think they were so stupid..yes there are people who want attention and that is why they do this but there are people who have no confidence whatsoever or faith in Allah(S.W.T) and they start doing this..I don't see a point to it..this topic would get me veryyy angry at times and i would say it to all of them that what's the point..i don't get it if you want to kill yourself just tell me..lol ok that reallyy scared them..i would talk to them all the time and made them promise me not to do it again and out of all of them one still did it and SHOWED IT TO ME...i got soo angry i hit her there and she got the point..i didn't hurt her hurt her but enough for her to get it..that was just askin for attention..somedays ago i gave a lecture to this other girl telling her why its rong and all because she was getting realllyy addicted to it..and it's truu when you get addicted to it ...it is veryyyy hard to stop...and you need a friend to help you through and most of all faith in Allah(s.w.t) ...I think these sisters and brothers need to be kept busy because when they are busy they don't really think of it as much while brothers and sisters who aren't that busy they think too much about it and causing self-harm.. i mean think about brothers and sisters in Iraq...everyday they are wishing for one more day and over here we are trying hurt ourselves...I would bring this example to my friends..and most people like bro chacha_jalebi said..hurt themselves over useless material dunya things that are not worth going to hell for...like when in love with boyfriends/gf and they hurt you..yes different people have different ways to deal with things and some don't have any at all and these people need help from friends who help them stop or psychologists ... sometimes you have to talk to them by taking things in perspective like giving them examples and understanding their problem but yet sayin that they can deal wit it..that they can handle it..Allah doesn't put something your way if you can't handle it...I mean i would lecture my friends telling them that' its wrong that they had no excuse for it ...that they should think about people who don't even have time to think about this stuff yet they go through far more than people in the states or canada or anywhere else or dubai whatever...but many depressed people care about themselves and could care less about the world and even then you gotta tell them they can handle it..
