I'm still hoping my wife will be better

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May ALlah cure her and ease her pain. ameen.
 
ardianto said:
Or maybe you asked me why I always love my wife? It's because she is my wife.
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Mashallah,good to know :) Noble people always love their OWN wives :)

Inshallah Allah SWT will bless this amazing couple long life and you both will be able to see and enjoy thousands of happy moments with each other.Ameen Ya Rabbul Aalameen.
 
may Allah SWT gives your wife shifa e kamila o ajeela brother and may He gives you strength and sabr to face this trial. ameen
 
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Mashallah,good to know :) Noble people always love their OWN wives :)
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Sis, if I love someone else wife, her husband would be angry. :D

Do not worry, I will not fall in love with another man's wife or another woman. I'm not the kind of a guy who easily attracted when see an attractive woman then try to get her.

My criteria of expected wife was simple. First, she can accept me and can love me. Secondly, I do not mind to be her husband. For me, physical beauty is not the main thing. And I didn't have type of favorite woman.

I was not looking for a woman who can be a 'maid' for me, I was not looking for a 'pretty doll' who can be a 'toy' for me. What I was looking for, just someone who can be a best friend in my life, in happiness, and in sadness.

Alhamdulillah, I grew up in an environment where harmony between husband and wife is something that is greatly appreciated. A husband and a wife, it would be greatly appreciated if they could always faithful in love, and in grief.

And I also grew up with many stories of true love. Not just read or heard, but I also saw the true love stories. I saw people who still love their partners even though their partner disability due to an accident. Those true love story were so impressive me.

Ever since I was little, the people around me have taught me about the sacred values ​​of a marriage. And when I grow into young adults, they began to teach me about building a happy family.

This is what motivates me to a dream, love and be loved. I've promised myself, if I have a wife, I would love her with a true love. If I have kids, I would always love my kids with a true love too. I had intention to love my wife, even before I had an idea with who I'm going married, even before I started to looking for someone.

This is why I said, I love my wife because she is my wife. Loving my wife is my promise since long time ago.



Inshallah Allah SWT will bless this amazing couple long life and you both will be able to see and enjoy thousands of happy moments with each other.Ameen Ya Rabbul Aalameen.
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Ameen.

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My mom's friend who had cancer under remission took a turn for the worse, she saw her today in the laundry room and she was so weak and covered up from the chemo.. her husband died of cancer about four years ago and she has one grown son who is a doctor but lives in another state... I made du3a for both your wife and her today may Allah swt grant them both fast shifaa and all the other Muslims ameen ya rabb.. It just breaks a person's heart to see a woman go through this all by herself. I am glad your wife has you, don't underestimate her recovery just by having you at her side..

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Alhumdulilah glad to hear tht she's back home may Allah give her a speedy recovery n inshaAllah tell her not to worry just make dua she'll start walking again.

Remember zakaria (as) he made a dua even though he knew it was impossible Buh he trusted Allah and Allah gave him what he wanted so tell her not to lose hope I'll pray for her :) may Allah bless u Akhi n grant both of u jannah Ul firdos Ameen :)
 
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My mom's friend who had cancer under remission took a turn for the worse, she saw her today in the laundry room and she was so weak and covered up from the chemo.. her husband died of cancer about four years ago and she has one grown son who is a doctor but lives in another state... I made du3a for both your wife and her today may Allah swt grant them both fast shifaa and all the other Muslims ameen ya rabb.. It just breaks a person's heart to see a woman go through this all by herself. I am glad your wife has you, don't underestimate her recovery just by having you at her side..

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t's must be hard for her. Her husband had passed away because cancer, and now she is suffer cancer too. May Allah grant her shifa and speed recovery. I will make du'a for everyone who suffer illness.

Yes I know what's the meaning of love and support for those who are in illness. Alhamdulillah, Allah gives me strength to always love my wife. And luckily, I work at home. I run a business which its office is in a room in my house. So, I can always be together with my wife.

Jazakillahu Khayr for your du'a. :)
 
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Alhumdulilah glad to hear tht she's back home may Allah give her a speedy recovery n inshaAllah tell her not to worry just make dua she'll start walking again.

Remember zakaria (as) he made a dua even though he knew it was impossible Buh he trusted Allah and Allah gave him what he wanted so tell her not to lose hope I'll pray for her :) may Allah bless u Akhi n grant both of u jannah Ul firdos Ameen :)
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Ameen.And Jazakillahu Khayr for your du'a, my sister.

My wife is so sad because now she cannot walk. But Insha Allah, I will always make du'a wish Allah make her can walk again, and I will always give her spirit and love. :)
 
My wife is in hospital again, but she is okay. Yesterday she got chemotherapy and she must stay because she need more infusion. I will bring her back to the home this afternoon.
 
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ذه ب الباس رب# ا لناس واشف انت ا لشاف ي ل ش فاء ا ل ش فائك ش فاء ل ي غاد ر سقما​

Azhibil ba'sa rabban naas washfi. Antash shaafee. Laa shifaa-a illaa shifaa uk. Shifaa-al laa yughaa diru saqamaa

: O Allah, Lord and Sustainer of mankind, remove his difficulty and cure him. You are the only One who cures. There is no cure but Yours. Grant such (complete) cure that leaves no trace of illness.

Ameen.
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This is "serabi", a traditional food made from rice flour (or wheat flour), served with sauce that made from palm sugar and coconut milk.

My wife told me that she want serabi, before I asked her what she want to eat. So, I bought serabi in the morning, and I felt happy when I saw she ate those serabi with pleasure.

May Allah give her speed recovery.
 
My wife is in hospital again.

Like I've said, she has a problem with fluid in her lung. Doctor had given her medicine to drain that lung fluid, but need time to drain it. So, I provide oxygen tanks in our home (2 tanks) that she can use when she feel hard to breath normally.

Thursday afternoon, my wife said she was breathing tightness. Friday morning she said, her breathing really congested without oxygen from the tank. So, after salah Jum'ah I brought her to hospital.

Doctor checked her with rontgen and USG, and this noon they removed fluid from her lung again. For the time being, she can breath normally again.

Please remember my wife in your du'a.
 
لا حول ولا قوة إلا بالله this is upsetting to hear it must be a frightening experience for her may Allah swt grant her shifa and remission of this horrible disease :(
 
:salamext: brother ardianto,

Jazakallahu khayran for these updates regarding your wife's condition. I will remember to make du'a for her especially during these sacred days of Muharram. May Allaah (swt) grant her a complete shifaa, leaving no trace of illness, may He (swt) expiate her sins for every suffering, and may He (swt) grant both of you strength and patience and keep you steadfast during this trial, Aameen!
 
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