I just got notified in Skype that this happened.
Inna lillahi wa'inna ilaihi raji'oon.
My Dear Brother Ardianto, my condolences are with you and I regret I cannot be with you in person (I wish I could sit with you, read Quran with you, make dua with you, make salaah with you). Rest assured, my heart and thoughts are with you my brother.
Your dearly departed wife is in my dua, and so are you and your family, both immediate and extended. This must be a very difficult time for all of you. I pray to Allah that HE gives you all patience to accept HIS decisions for you, Ameen. I also pray that Allah returns you a better gift for your loss in future, Ameen.
Allah takes, what HE gives. We all belong to HIM alone. Ameen.
The blessing in this is that - your wife had time to prepare, alhamdulillah. So many die without that chance. Truly bro Ardianto, I see this blessing prevalent in your posts, you are truly a remarkable brother, and I am honoured and pleased to have gotten the chance to know you here.
I know I don't have to tell you to be patient, as you have displayed an enormous amount of patience and trust in Allah in your posts - in fact, I often thought how you managed. BUt alas, I see Allah gifts everyone qualities in varying amounts... I got the short stick in that sense, and you my dear brother - got the long one, masha-Allah.
May Allah grant you and your family, and your dearly departed wife, the highest ranks of Jannah, Ameen.
Scimi