Salaam/peace;
..... leave the jdgement to God himself. Would you agree?
------ does it mean we won’t punish a child killer , we won’t punish a rapist ? We will leave the matter for the Last Day ?
In the mean time , how many innocent lives will be destroyed by those sinners ?
If u r specifically talking about adultery , then as I said earlier , personal sin can be ignored if nobody takes the matter to the court/authority. Otherwise , judge needs to give verdict regarding holy Book.
If a man accuses his wife of adultery without providing four good witnesses, and she denies it, he is to be whipped for slander unless he swears four times that he is telling the truth, and the fifth time that he invokes the curse of Allah on himself if he is lying.
The wife can avert the punishment by swearing four times that he is a liar, and a fifth time she invokes the wrath of Allah upon herself if he is telling the truth. After this, the marriage is dissolved forever, and they can never marry each other again.
It is recommended that a man divorce his wife rather than dissolving the marriage in this way."
Allah Almighty says: “As for those who accuse their wives but have no witnesses except themselves; let the testimony of one of them be four testimonies (swearing) by Allah that he is of those who speak the truth.
And yet a fifth invoking the curse of Allah on him if he is of those who lie.
And it shall avert the punishment from her if she bear witness before Allah four times that he is of those who are liars. And a fifth (time) that the wrath of Allah be upon her if he is of those who speak the truth.” (An-Nur: 6-9)
The above quotation is excerpted with slight modifications from
http://www.stanford.edu/group/ISSU/Info/hussein/node55.html
Once a man asked permission from Prophet Muhammed (p) to do adultery. The Prophet (p) asked ( not the exact words ) : will u be happy if any man commits zina ( adultery ) with ur mother ? He said , no .
Then the Prophet (p) again asked , will u be happy if anybody commits zina with ur wife ? Again the man said , no. What about with ur sister & daughter ….each time , man answered no & no.
Then the Prophet (p) said , if u don’t want that somebody else does it with ur mother , wife , sister , daughter ; then how can do the same with other men’s mom , wife, sis , daughter ?
Then the man realized his mistake & promised not to do that.
To my knowledge , Jesus (p) in Bible forbid men to even look at the women ; it would considered as adultery ( can’t remember the exact verse ….meaning is like that ).
So, I don’t know , why adultery is so common in the west . May be , many Christians are not reading Bible properly