Why aren't the Nun's considered Opressed?

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it has nothing to do with religion it is culture.
When you see these killings were a woman commit this or that and got killed and then a man did the same and didnt
they are not following Islamic law they are following culture and being disobedient to Allah (swt). Also some cases are different if a woman had sex with a man and she is married and his is not married
She is to be stoned to death and the man is to be lashed and vice versa
Some people around the world choose to follow their culture before their religion and others choose to mix them together.


Sure, it is culture, not Islam. But why is it that this culture shows itself more in those countries where Islam is the dominate religion and less so in countries where Islam is a minority?
 
Sure, it is culture, not Islam. But why is it that this culture shows itself more in those countries where Islam is the dominate religion and less so in countries where Islam is a minority?

Peace Gene,

I believe you will find the same type culture among India and the countries that border the Mediterranean such as Italy, Sicily, Greece, Crete, Southern Spain and even France to a lesser degree. In the recent past (may still be) it was also common in China and Japan. While there may be a correlation with religious beliefs, I doubt if that is causation, there seems to be some other factors at work. The extreme concept of Family honor seems to play a very important role in the culture of those nations. This concept of Family pride and honor, coupled with a bit of racial pride just could be the cultural attitudes at the base of this.

Another factor that may play a large part in the culture of those regions is the population density. It seems the Densely populated cities and lack of inhabitable land also plays a part in the formation of this type of culture.
 
Grace seeker, after all your time debating and being on this forum, i would have at-least expected you to master the art of debate, not make your stance unclear by popping up with some surprise here and there by trying to "trip up" your opponents with deceit. what do you have to hide? your half-assed debating skills? no need to, we already know this...you made it crystal clear one too many times.


Graceseeker by name, im afraid grace seeker not by nature.
 
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Grace seeker, after all your time debating and being on this forum, i would have at-least expected you to master the art of debate, not make your stance unclear by popping up with some surprise here and there by trying to "trip up" your opponents with deceit. what do you have to hide? your half-assed debating skills? no need to, we already know this...you made it crystal clear one too many times.


Graceseeker by name, im afraid grace seeker not by nature.
Since you are having trouble following my line of arguement, I'll spell it out more simply for you:

The specific question of this thread is whether or not there is a double standard in terms of the perception by the non-Muslims world that Muslim women are oppressed by virtue of being "force" to wear the veil, when none one says anything about nuns.

I made my view on that clear by arguing that those who feel this way would be wrong because they make a false assumption, that there is actual coercion going on with respect to what either Muslim women or nuns wear. That such coercion was not demonstrably linked to Islam as a whole because we one could see that it was not a universal practice by Muslim women.

Yet this does not mean that no Muslim women are oppressed. If a woman has a husband who is oppressive, then she is living under oppression. This is true whether a woman is Muslim, Christian, Wiccan or none of the above. So, even though not all Muslim women are oppressed, this does not mean that no Muslim women are oppressed. And though Islam may not see itself as oppressive, sometimes those who do oppress Muslim women do so based on rationale that they cite as being part of their Islamic faith.

When questioned why I felt that, I sided with those who had already contributed the opinion that women and men are not affored equal status in Islam. This led others asking for substantiation of that position. To which I offered the example of honor killings. Now there are other examples beyond this, I believe, but we are presently stuck on this one.

To this point, surely no one can question the sense of logic that is involved. The question then becomes does the presence of honor killings substatiate the position that women and not treated equally with men in Islam. I am willing to stipulate that Islam does, at least in certain passages, teach equality. But I submit that on this issue there may be a difference between creed and praxis. And with regard to oppression, it is the praxis of one's religion that is important.

So, what is the praxis of Islam with regard to honor killings. Well, one could argue that since not all Muslim women are subjected to this, that it proves that Islam as a whole does not condone honor killings. That I have already agreed to. So, all such discussions are a moot point. But I do ask what I think is a very relevant question, since, as it has been argued, Islam specifically forbids such actions, where does it come from? And the answer has been culture.

This answer however is in essence a hypothesis. And in examining that hypothesis, I observed that the actual frequency of the practice of honor killings seemed to directly correlate with the degree of influence of Islam in the culture. And I argue that if Islam really did teach as part of one's praxis (and not just an idealized creed) the equality of men and women, then either there would be as many honor killings of men as there are of women or even in regions where the presence of honor killings was part of the culture, it would be less among Muslim communities than among non-Muslim communities of that same culture. That's a legitimate argument, and for you or anyone else to suggest that it is poor logic or poor debate shows your own lack of ability or an unwillingness to exam Islam rationally.

Fortunately, Woodrow has decided to join the discussion, at least for the moment, and he alone has raised a good counter argument. Mainly he asserts that such correlation doesn't really exist and that honor killings are similarly distributed among non-Muslim communities. He cites places such as southern Europe and India where he claims this same culture exists.

Woodrow, I don't see southern Europe as having that similar of a culture with those countries that are predominately Islamic, can you provide evidence that the practice of honor killings in southern Europe is anywhere near on par with honor killings in Iran or Afghanistan?

I agree that Pakistan and Indian share a common culture. Perhaps it would be good to compare the frequency of honor killings among Muslims and non-Muslims in these two countries to see if religion can be excluded as being part of the equation that leads to honor killings? Do you have any idea as to how we could obtain data to test that hypothesis?

Another way to examine it would be to see if the practice of honor killings increased or decreased in a nation that was once non-Muslim and now is mostly Muslim. Alternately, one could examine the effect of secularlization might have had in a nation that was historically Muslim, but now thought to have become more westernized.
 
Sure, it is culture, not Islam. But why is it that this culture shows itself more in those countries where Islam is the dominate religion and less so in countries where Islam is a minority?

You know Grace Seeker I could actually ask the same about countries that are dominated by Christianity
In the Bible doesnt it say that adulters should be stoned but yet and still in America (and many other Christian dominated countries) the only thing that happens is divorce. And murder is it not suppose to be like an eye for an eye but no men here are just sent to prison for many years and a few are actually given lethal injection, etc.

I suppose it is the opposite with Islam some people are getting too extreme when following the laws of Allah (swt) while Christians are failing at following anything that was prescribe for them when it comes to laws. This type of culture over religion attitude exists everywhere and to pin point it on a specific religion or group of people is not fair.
 
You know Grace Seeker I could actually ask the same about countries that are dominated by Christianity
In the Bible doesnt it say that adulters should be stoned but yet and still in America (and many other Christian dominated countries) the only thing that happens is divorce. And murder is it not suppose to be like an eye for an eye but no men here are just sent to prison for many years and a few are actually given lethal injection, etc.

I suppose it is the opposite with Islam some people are getting too extreme when following the laws of Allah (swt) while Christians are failing at following anything that was prescribe for them when it comes to laws. This type of culture over religion attitude exists everywhere and to pin point it on a specific religion or group of people is not fair.

I agree that there are instances of culture obscuring religion everywhere. But culture is also largely formed by religion as well. I believe it was religion that transformed Japan's culture to the point that they were willing to launch Kamikazee attacks or commit Hari Kari. I believe it was religion that resulted in the style of art that dominates the Moorish influenced portions of Spain. I believe it was religion that led to the justification of geneocide of Native Indian populations in America.

And that last is a good illustration of what I am trying to examine with regard to Islam. The desire for Americans of white European descent to ever expand unto Native American lands wasn't the result of religion, that desire was driven by much baser desire, but religion was then used (or maybe we should say misused) to justify it. One has to wonder how the world would be different, if people had remained true to the ideals of their respective religions rather than simply co-opting them to justify their actions. Could Hitler have risen to power if the church in Germany would have stood up to him rather than surrendering to him under the pressure of German pride.

So, I'm not picking on Islam. But I'm not going to leave it unexamined either. Is there something in Islam that sets the stage so that those who for other reasons desire to commit these acts are able to find justification more easily within the context of Islam than if they were in some other environment? Because, despite Woodrow's questioning, what I see is that the coorelation between where these types of honor killings are most frequent and where Islam is the dominant religious influence on the culture of those who commit these crimes is all too close.
 
If someone was to commit a honor killing in America (or any other country with a different culture/ religion that doesnt accept honor killings) the person who did the killing would be charge with murder because they (people outside their culture/religion) would consider it to be horrible and maybe even taboo thats why it is more common in Muslim or Hindu countries and not Christian dominated countires.
 
I know you have heard of what is called honor killings. I quick Google search will turn up literally hundreds of reports. I understand what you say, that Sharia law actually denounces the cases and that most of what is reported as honor killing is downright unIslamic.

Then you already know that the so called honor killings are against the teaching of Islam.


Yet, the vast majority of so-called "honor killings" are by people who call themselves followers of Islam and claim that they do so as a function of their faith and religious obligations and therefore cannot be written off as something that is purely cultural.


Did you interview the perpetrators individually and did they tell you that they did the honor killings because Islam told them to?

You know Grace seeker, I don't think you are as stupid as you make out to be, so I will give you a pass on this and I will not mention all the HEINOUS CRIMES that have been done by PRIEST, PASTORS and NUNS in the name of God.
 
Grace seeker, after all your time debating and being on this forum, i would have at-least expected you to master the art of debate, not make your stance unclear by popping up with some surprise here and there by trying to "trip up" your opponents with deceit. what do you have to hide? your half-assed debating skills? no need to, we already know this...you made it crystal clear one too many times.


Graceseeker by name, im afraid grace seeker not by nature.

Wow really? You're going to go all adhom on Graceseeker of all people? I mean I expect it with me. I say some things that people won't like and I don't sugar coat it. But Graceseeker? Dude is one of the most serene bend over backwards polite people I've ever seen on this forum.
 
In an attempt to answer to the original question; I would be more inclined to say that while muslim women can easily be seen to be oppressed, by secular standards - nuns are repressed.

The reason I say this is because nuns come into their order by choice, as young women - and not in the same way as we see muslim girls being indoctrinated into the ways of Islamic culture from a very young age. Having said that, both christianity and Islam are almost on a par, when it comes to suppressing certain 'natural qualities' of a person, in terms of outward expression through fashion but one must look for the reasons behind each, before making erroneous comparrisons between the two. Thus, it is more than conceivable that the nun comes to her calling as a result of early childhood indoctrination - most likely from a catholic upbringing or Sunday school. In that sense, I suppose you could say that the choice is coloured by her upbringing, in much same way as it has for a young muslim girl, growing up in the free world.

However, one of the major differences you have overlooked, when attempting to conflate catholic nuns with traditional muslim women, is that nuns make the decision to 'marry god' and as such, fall into a sect. They operate in normal society, only through stricly measured restrictions, while the work they carry out is designed to be of a caring and supportive nature to both society and humanity. They take a vow of celibacy and devote themselves to work, in service of that god.

On the other hand, muslim women are subject to arranged marriages and become what the average western observer might percieve of as being in some way 'the property' of the man, within that marriage. Catholic nuns are not subject to 'ownership' in that sense, by men but fall strictly under the institutional laws of the church and of their sect.

To the observer of Islam, it would also appear that the 'choice' has already been made for the girl, whilst somehow forging a masquerade of choice in the matter. The point being that when children are brought up strictly within the confines of Islamic culture, knowing very little outside of that, the question would be: what other other choices are they presented with? So when a muslim woman says she wears the all-encompassing black robes by choice... one is forced to wonder what alternatives are available to her.

Now this brings me to possibly the most important point - that nuns are free to leave their sect if they are deemed 'unsuited' to the life of penance and suffer no ill treatment as a result of leaving. This is in sharp contrast to certain laws in muslim countries, which we have become aware of, in which the penalty for apostasy appears to be clearly defined.
 
very interesting conclusions, Ezekiel_B .so basically what you are implying and saying is that since the nun decided to become a nun-then Catholicism has forced her not to get married and bear children?
 
Since you are having trouble following my line of arguement, I'll spell it out more simply for you:
Well it’s just as well you did that, since your line of argument makes no sense.

your argument about honor killing has no place since 1) that wasn’t what was being discussed and 2) you dragged it into the discussion in desperation to back your baseless allegation about so called inequality in Islam...more about that later, but my point is You don’t spring surprises like that when debating, it’s plain and simple ignorance.

About your pathetic attempt at shooting down Islam, you use honour killings despite the fact that it was explained to you that both men and women in Islam receive the same punishment for adultery. Not only that, you (in the very same post mind you) actually acknowledged that honor killings have nothing to do with Islam.

But wait a min aren’t you using cultural practices as your yardstick to judge Islam, even though you admit that honor killings have no place in Islam. Right on, genius.

Oh but then you make it sound as if you are so stupid and don't realize this
Yet, the vast majority of so-called "honor killings" are by people who call themselves followers of Islam and claim that they do so as a function of their faith and religious obligations and therefore cannot be written off as something that is purely cultural.

1) Even though you admit that it is (purely cultural)? Ok then, whatever floats your boat.
2) Who said that Muslims implement honor killings as to implement that part of Islam. Weird, I've never heard any such jargon from any muslim. Hell i cant even recall such statements from non-muslims.

Another loophole and claim not backed up with evidence.

Yes the punishment for adultery (for the married) is death but by the same token does that mean christens are blood sucking, un-sympathizing murdered since they worship a man who was dragged and nail to across praying for god to save him? Going by your logic, could i conclude the same?

Errr no, i don't think i can.
 
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It is all very simple, a Nun is not seen as oppressed because she is covering out of religious convictions while a Musilima is seen as oppressed because she covers out of religious convictions. More simple explanation, just call it what it is "Double Standards".

I think the difficulty for non-Muslims is they see Nuns as doing so out of love for God(swt), but fail to see that Musilimas are also doing so out of love of Allaah(swt)

They also forget that all people of the Abrahamic faiths have received the same commandment for all women to cover. Perhaps some think that because some women cover that fulfills the command for all women.
 
very interesting conclusions, Ezekiel_B .so basically what you are implying and saying is that since the nun decided to become a nun-then Catholicism has forced her not to get married and bear children?

That's a rather simplistic reasoning on your part, Ummu. As you should be able to deduce - the nun is (apparently) not being forced into anything but has accepted the rammifications of her path. Rather, the path she has chosen, by virtue of it's very nature, does not include taking a partner or bearing children. It would defeat the purpose of her goal, but I think our use of the word 'forcing' is inaccurate and not one I would attach to catholic nuns as readily as I would to the traditional muslim way of treating females. Obligated by a pressured consience and subject to mysognistic tradition... perhaps! Don't forget, the catholic religion is just as sexist as Islam - yet still - to the best of my knowledge, there doesn't appear to be any looming danger of an ex-nun being stoned to death, for leaving her sect or disobeying orders. We know there is a tradition of self-flagellation within the catholic church, so it stands to reason, most punishments will be consentual and neither fatal nor injurous!

However, my conclusion is quite without reference to what *might* go on behind closed doors. We have come to expect some deviation within the realms of the catholic church and who knows what the little minxes get up to after evening prayers, possibly even under the direction of the mother superior - and who knows who (or what) gets forced into the holiest of holys...?

I cannot and will not try to fit this broad overview to individual circumstances because I'm neither related to, nor otherwise directly associated with any nuns... It's just a fantas...er I mean... a set of observations, you understand. :shade:
 
So there you have it! You can say nuns are suppressed if you want, or you can say they are simply making choices. You can say the same about muslim women wrapped up in black robes... Any patriarchal religion hailing from the middle east (and in this I DO include christianity - as a modified form of Judaism) is oppressive, in some form, towards females. It stands to reason; the evidence of which, virtually inarguable.
 
It is all very simple, a Nun is not seen as oppressed because she is covering out of religious convictions while a Musilima is seen as oppressed because she covers out of religious convictions. More simple explanation, just call it what it is "Double Standards".

Again - very over-simplified reasoning. You can call it "double standards" if you want, but I think it is more accurate to say that the suppression of a persons will is a matter of degree, which certainly appears to differ between the two religions.

Another difference would be that the muslim women you're talking about are ordinary citizens, whereas nuns are of a specialised order, which is not only entered into voluntarily, but is also strictly regulated in terms of who can join. They must qualify to gain a position in the covent, through a series of tests, which can take many years (depending on the order) but, as I have come to understand it, muslim women are simply born into their tradition and live it through, quite as a matter of routine.
 
Thank you, really. for expanding and explaining my point.

Yes as a nun she chose to, thus she forfeits her will for a husband/child which means she has given up children/husband.

Same with being a Muslim once you choose to be a Muslim, you forfeit whatever it goes against it and will get punished accordingly for doing so- like the nun who gets “punished” and deprived of a husband and child for willingly giving up her natural instincts to serve god.

i hope that is clear.
 
Thank you, really. for expanding and explaining my point.

Yes as a nun she chose to, thus she forfeits her will for a husband/child which means she has given up children/husband.

Same with being a Muslim once you choose to be a Muslim, you forfeit whatever it goes against it and will get punished accordingly for doing so- like the nun who gets “punished” and deprived of a husband and child for willingly giving up her natural instincts to serve god.

i hope that is clear.

Ah! Yes... I see what you mean, Ummu. Yes, perfectly clear, thankyou.

In a sense it is a form of 'symbolic punishment' I suppose. More importantly, I assume you are talking about people who have decided to convert to Islam? Well - and correct me if I'm wrong; I guess when this occurs in the Western world, we may be seeing more mitigated forms of the laws in practice? Largely due to the laws of the land they happen to be in at the time. I suppose I should ask: in a so called 'muslim state', how much freedom do you feel is available to you in these matters? I'm genuinely interested to know.
 

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