So what your saying is that the Muslims who do not want to be labelled extremist and do not want to be unified with extremist are 'gullible' 'who dont have brains' but you see, while I do agree that some people called extremist in the news, I cant think of any actually, but for the benefit of doubt, some people in the news might not be extreme in the western view and islamic view, the vast majority, from what we hear in the news are extreme, for example, Osama Bin Laden, IF he agrees with 9/11 would that not be extreme in ISlam? What about others who condone suicide bombing and killing of innocents and kidnapping and beheading, are those not extreme by Islamic views? These are the widest images of Extreme Muslims which are shown on TV!! This is why those who you say seem 'gullible' and so forth.
If someone goes around beheading people - then he should be condemned by Muslims and be shown to be misguided, unislamic etc.
This would clearly show our position on it and that for me and most Muslims would be enough.
But to turn your point on itself the same could be said of the "moderates" - the moderates that are portrayed on our screens are the likes of Kadyrov, Musharaf, BMF etc.. These are the widest images of moderate Muslims which are shown. Majority of Muslims wont want tobe labelled moderate due to this interpretation of "moderate" where scumbags and murderers of Muslims are hailed.
Of course the only difference is many times the word "extreme" used by the western media is in reference to the best ones amongst us (hence us trying to stick with them) whereas the word "moderate" seems to be for any tom dick or harry that they can find who agrees with them.
So instead of defending their honour both Islamically and Westernly, i.e. Islamically showing that those brothers are not extreme in their religion and westernly showing others that they are not extreme by their definition, you choose to put yourself in the same catagory as those brothers, yet do you think if those brothers are asked 'Are you extremist' they will say yes?
I don't see much point in carrying the conversation, I havent seen any good reason for muslims to call themselves extremist, if they want to unifiy with those who are wrongly labelled extremist then all they have to do is clear those charges.
As i said earlier the idea seems good but in practice in my opinon it is useless.
Let me say that once upon a time i agreed with what you say and would have agreed with all your points but i think as time goes on we have to change our thinking patterns according to the situation we find ourselves in.
This has been tried for a long time - indeed some Muslims have even become apologists over this but it hasnt changed anything - people are still dying, Aslan Maskhadov was still killed for being an "extremist" despite our bleating, nothing has been achived by this except maybe we have further isolated those we sought originally to help.
I agree with you, Brother - this isnt going anywhere. You have your opinion and i have mine. While i understand your sentiments i disagree with your points.
May Allah (swt) bless you.